Oct 8Living Your DreamsLiving Your Dreams: A question that people sometimes ponder: Have I have fulfilled my dreams? It is a troubling question at many levels because an affirmative response suggests a moment of termination. What is left? If indeed the dreams have all become reality? The sense of finality that would set…Dreams3 min readDreams3 min read
Sep 25Are You An Honorable Person?Are you an honorable person? Or do you cheat on tests? This conversation happened with my students recently. I have been a teacher for nearly three decades, and I have witnessed a lot. I remember the old days of blue books (my American readers will know what I mean), when…Honor3 min readHonor3 min read
Feb 15, 2022And It Is OverAnd it is over. One would think so. I remember October 2020. A dark time in the life of the World. I was preparing for a voyage. The medicines were piling up. Untested ways to stay safe. Flea medicine for dogs from the local pet supply store. Zinc as a…Travel4 min readTravel4 min read
Feb 3, 2022The FireIt was not fog. The messages began to come in late in the night. In my typical way, I was here and there. I was in a conversation with a bondhu there when the words “evacuation” and “fire” came in together in multiple messages here. The immediate visit to some…Winston Salem4 min readWinston Salem4 min read
Jan 30, 2022I Was Waiting: To Hear From YouI was waiting. To hear from you. This is a condition that we have all found ourselves in. Back in the days when we operated with postcards and aerogrammes the wait was expected and anticipated. There was no point in me getting impatient to hear from a bondhu or a…3 min read3 min read
Jan 26, 2022The Words We SayI love you. According to some research 73% of Americans want to hear those words from their partner every day. I got thinking about it sitting at an airport waiting for my son to arrive. …4 min read4 min read
Jan 17, 2022Of The Green Eyed Monster“I am jealous.” I have heard many people say, “I am jealous.” Indeed, I say it as well and if you think about it, I am sure you have felt it at times, if not actually said. A bondhu recently asked me, “why are you jealous?” Because I am. But…3 min read3 min read
Jan 8, 2022Of SleepShue poro — go to bed. Simple words. Often said. But in these words there is embedded a deep affection that few other words embody. I am told this often, by many people, given that I have the weirdest sleep cycle I know among my bondhus. I have chosen to…3 min read3 min read
Jan 7, 2022Bondhu — a complex relationshipWho is a bondhu? I ran into a bondhu today and the person expressed some confusion about the word. And that got me thinking. Indeed, I use the word frequently in my writing, and way back I had tried to clarify what it means. But perhaps it is time to…3 min read3 min read
May 29, 2021Covidaze: The Spring of 2021This is a journal of a person experiencing the reality of COVID-19 as a new wave hit Kolkata, India in the early part of the summer of 2021, while the author was at his home in the suburb of Salt Lake. An associated video can be viewed here. You can…Kolkata49 min readKolkata49 min read